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Cats in the Cradle

28 Feb

Cats in the Cradle
by Harry Chapin


A child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking ‘fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He’d say, “I’m gonna be like you, dad.
You know I’m gonna be like you.”

And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
“When you coming home, dad?” “I don’t know when,
But we’ll get together then.
You know we’ll have a good time then.”

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Re-kindling a passion

15 Feb

One of the greatest pleasures of my life is reading books – living vicariously, enjoying.

One can’t always hop across to a library or a bookshop and pick up a new book to read. Apart from the facts that new books are frighteningly expensive, and that there are some purchased books which you would rather not read and preserve on your bookshelf because they are crap, library books tend to be in relatively poor condition and just don’t feel right. Read the rest of this entry »

 
 

It’s the 15th of February. So happy Lupercalia

15 Feb
Plutarch described Lupercalia:
Lupercalia, of which many write that it was anciently celebrated by shepherds, and has also some connection with the Arcadian Lycaea. At this time many of the noble youths and of the magistrates run up and down through the city naked, for sport and laughter striking those they meet with shaggy thongs. And many women of rank also purposely get in their way, and like children at school present their hands to be struck, believing that the pregnant will thus be helped in delivery, and the barren to pregnancy.

Plutarch described Lupercalia:Lupercalia, of which many write that it was anciently celebrated by shepherds, and has also some connection with the Arcadian Lycaea. At this time many of the noble youths and of the magistrates run up and down through the city naked, for sport and laughter striking those they meet with shaggy thongs. And many women of rank also purposely get in their way, and like children at school present their hands to be struck, believing that the pregnant will thus be helped in delivery, and the barren to pregnancy.

From Wikipedia

 
 

This too…

20 Oct
One day Solomon decided to humble Benaiah Ben Yehoyada, his most trusted minister.
He said to him, “Benaiah, there is a certain ring that I want you to bring to me. I wish to wear it for Sukkot which gives you six months to find it.”
“If it exists anywhere on earth, your majesty,” replied Benaiah, “I will find it and bring it to you, but what makes the ring so special?”
“It has magic powers,” answered the king. “If a happy man looks at it, he becomes sad, and if a sad man looks at it, he becomes happy.” Solomon knew that no such ring existed in the world, but he wished to give his minister a little taste of humility. Spring passed and then summer, and still Benaiah had no idea where he could find the ring.
On the night before Sukkot, he decided to take a walk in one of the poorest quarters of Jerusalem. He passed by a merchant who had begun to set out the day’s wares on a shabby carpet.
“Have you by any chance heard of a magic ring that makes the happy wearer forget his joy and the broken-hearted wearer forget his sorrows?” asked Benaiah.
He watched the grandfather take a plain gold ring from his carpet and engrave something on it. When Benaiah read the words on the ring, his face broke out in a wide smile. That night the entire city welcomed in the holiday of Sukkot with great festivity.
“Well, my friend,” said Solomon, “have you found what I sent you after?”
All the ministers laughed and Solomon himself smiled.
To everyone’s surprise, Benaiah held up a small gold ring and declared, “Here it is, your majesty!”
As soon as Solomon read the inscription, the smile vanished from his face.
The jeweler had written three Hebrew letters on the gold band: gimel, zayin, yud, which began the words “Gam zeh ya’avor” — “This too shall pass.”
At that moment Solomon realized that all his wisdom and fabulous wealth and tremendous power were but fleeting things, for one day he would be nothing but dust.

One day Solomon decided to humble Benaiah Ben Yehoyada, his most trusted minister. He said to him, “Benaiah, there is a certain ring that I want you to bring to me. I wish to wear it for Sukkot which gives you six months to find it.”

“If it exists anywhere on earth, your majesty,” replied Benaiah, “I will find it and bring it to you, but what makes the ring so special?”

“It has magic powers,” answered the king. “If a happy man looks at it, he becomes sad, and if a sad man looks at it, he becomes happy.” Read the rest of this entry »

 
 

The brits are nuts

21 Aug
These are genuine clips from British Council flat tenants complaining to the Council about problems with their flats !!*
My bush is really overgrown round the front and my back passage has fungus growing in it.
He’s got this huge tool that vibrates the whole house and I just can’t take it anymore.
It’s the dog’s mess that I find hard to swallow.
I want to complain about the farmer across the road; every morning at 6am his cock wakes me up and it’s now getting too much for me.
I am a single woman living in a downstairs flat and would you please do something about the noise made by the man on top of me every night..
And their 18-year-old son is continually banging his balls against my fence.
Please send a man with the right tool to finish the job and satisfy my wife.
My lavatory seat is cracked, where do I stand?
I am writing on behalf of my sink, which is coming away from the wall.
Will you please send someone to mend the garden path? My wife tripped and fell on it yesterday and now she is pregnant.
I request permission to remove my drawers in the kitchen.
50% of the walls are damp, 50% have crumbling plaster and 50% are plain filthy.
I am still having problems with smoke in my new drawers.
The toilet is blocked and we cannot bath the children until it is cleared.
Will you please send a man to look at my water, it is a funny colour & not fit to drink.
I want some repairs done to my cooker as it has backfired and burnt my knob off..
The man next door has a large erection in the back garden, which is unsightly and dangerous.
Our kitchen floor is damp. We have two children and would like a third so please send someone round to do something about it.
I wish to complain that my father hurt his ankle very badly when he put his foot in the hole in his back passage.
I wish to report that tiles are missing from the outside toilet roof. I think it was bad wind the other night that blew them off.

These are genuine clips from British Council flat tenants complaining to the Council about problems with their flats !!*

  1. My bush is really overgrown round the front and my back passage has fungus growing in it.
  2. He’s got this huge tool that vibrates the whole house and I just can’t take it anymore. Read the rest of this entry »
 
 

the law matters

04 Aug

After procrastinating for a long long time, I finally started putting my legal articles online on a new parallel blog – xLaw

 
 

Meeting the PM and HM with Justice Liberhan

04 Jul

Liberhan report submitted to PM and HM

 
 

17 years after Babri, Liberhan files his report

04 Jul

Maneesh Chhibber

(from http://www.indianexpress.com/news/17-years-after-babri-liberhan-files-his-report/483495/0)

Almost 17 years after it was set up to probe the “sequence of events leading, and all facts and circumstances relating to, the occurrences at Ram Janmabhoomi-Babri Masjid complex on December 6, 1992”, the one-member Justice M S Liberhan Commission finally submitted its report to the Union Government today.

The demolition of the Babri Masjid in Ayodhya had triggered communal riots in the country, claiming many lives.
Accompanied by Commission counsel Harpreet Singh Giani, Liberhan handed over a four-volume report to Prime Minister Manmohan Singh this morning. It is learnt that a copy of the report has been forwarded to the Union Home Ministry for action.

While Minister of State for Parliamentary Affairs V Narayanasamy told reporters that the report would be tabled in Parliament along with an Action Taken Report (ATR) during the Budget session, sources in the Home Ministry denied any such move. “There is no deadline. We will study the report and take a call,” a senior MHA official told The Indian Express.

While the contents of the report have not been made public, sources in the Commission said the report comes down heavily on the then Uttar Pradesh government of Kalyan Singh and its top officers for failing to prevent the demolition of the Babri Masjid.

“The Commission has also taken a negative view of the failure of the then Congress government at the Centre led by P V Narasimha Rao in protecting the disputed structure,” said a source associated with the Commission.

Commission functionaries, however, refused to say whether BJP leader L K Advani, over whose role Liberhan and previous Commission counsel Anupam Gupta had a bitter fallout, has been indicted or let off.

Liberhan too refused to say anything on the report. “I have submitted my report to the Government. It is now for it to decide whatever it wants.”

Liberhan had also been mandated to probe the role played by then Chief Minister Kalyan Singh, his ministerial colleagues, officials of the UP government and by individuals, agencies and organisations in bringing down the structure. He was also tasked to probe deficiencies in security measures and the attack on mediapersons on the day of the demolition.

Set up on December 16, 1992 by the Central government, the Liberhan Commission received as many as 48 extensions and was criticised by many Muslim organisations and NGOs for failing to submit its report in a time-bound manner.

Asked what took him so long, Liberhan said: “I have written the reasons in my report. Beyond that I will not say anything.” He did blame the “non-cooperative attitude” of some people for the delay but took no names. He said he was “independent” and “relieved” after submitting the report. “I didn’t have any pressure from anybody.”

To a question whether he feared that the report would be used for political considerations, Liberhan said: “I am not afraid of anything. It is for the people of this country to take note of that.”

Among those who appeared before the Commission to depose were former PMs Rao and V P Singh, BJP leaders Advani, Murli Manohar Joshi and Vinay Katiyar, former UP Chief Minister Kalyan Singh, Congress leader Arjun Singh, Uma Bharati, VHP leaders V H Dalmia, Ashok Singhal, former Union Cabinet Secretary Prabhat Kumar, then Home Secretary Madhav Godbole, senior civil and police officers, civilians and journalists.

Officials associated with the panel say that apart from Uma Bharati and, to a certain extent, Kalyan SIngh — both are now out the BJP — no BJP functionary showed any inclination to share responsibility for the December 6 incident. In fact, most BJP leaders told the Commission that they had tried to prevent Kar Sevaks from carrying out the demolition.

“During her deposition in 2001, Uma Bharati became emotional and blurted out that the structure deserved to be brought down. However, during subsequent cross-examination, she claimed she was at a distance from the disputed structure and when she saw the structure being pulled down, she tried to stop it,” said a source.

Kalyan Singh, who quit the BJP and supported the SP in the 2009 Lok Sabha election, first got a court stay to avoid deposing before the panel. Later, when the protection granted was lifted, he appeared as the last witness and his deposition was said to be “very productive”.

“His (Singh’s) was the longest testimony before the Commission which continued for 20-odd sittings and his deposition ran into over 400 pages. In fact, he volunteered to submit an affidavit and written statements which most top leaders avoided,” recalled an official.

In his testimony, Singh claimed that the demolition “was an act of God… whatever happened on that day, the deponent has no regret, no repentance, no sorrow, and no grief for that… Historians will write that devotees of Ram and devotees of the nation had demolished this symbol of slavery and disgrace and though this demolition was not unexpected, it was purely sudden and totally unplanned.”

But most leaders, including Advani, denied knowledge of any plan to demolish the structure or having instigated the Kar Sevaks to do so.

During his testimony, which runs into almost 200 pages, Advani said while the BJP wanted a Ram temple, it didn’t intend to hurt the sentiments of Muslims.

Commission sources recall that during one of the hearings, Advani took strong exception to the manner of questioning by the then counsel of the Commission, Anupam Gupta. “He was upset by the line of questioning. He said the counsel was asking questions beyond the terms of reference of the Commission. He also asked Justice Liberhan to take action against Gupta,” said the source.

 
 

Life’s lessons

03 Jun

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this matter?’
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time some time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

 
 

Sneezes around the world

28 May

France: Atchoum!
Finland: Atsiuh!
Iceland: Atsjú!
Sweden: Atjo!
Denmark: Atju!
Netherlands: Hatsjoe!
Lithuania: Apchi!
Germany: Hatschie!
Hungary: Hapci!
Poland: Apsik!
Russia: Apchkhi!
Italy: Etciù!
Spain: ¡Achús!
Portugal: Atchim!
Romania: Hapciu!
Philippines: Hatsing!
Japan: Hakushon!
South Korea: Achee!
Vietnam: Hát-xì!